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1. Man
2. Food
3. Money

Hjm331, do not make up an excuse for anyone when they ask you for YOUR money. Simlpy explain why you do not loan money. I have helped close FRIENDS with money, the ones who will pay me back, but it is VEREY RARE. If they do not pay me back, I chop it up as a lost, or if I am mad, I tell them, "Keep the money, that is how much I bought you for." A friend would not put a friend in bondage. Excuse me let me repeat this again just incase my SISTER isn't listening. "FRIENDSSSSSS DO NOT PUT A FRIEEEEEND IN BONDAGE".[/color]

That's a good slogan lol

Well here is my drama sayings:

We could be the best of friends, as long as you do not mess with my]
1. Man
2. Food
3. Money

Hjm331, do not make up an excuse for anyone when they ask you for YOUR money. Simlpy explain why you do not loan money. I have helped close FRIENDS with money, the ones who will pay me back, but it is VEREY RARE. If they do not pay me back, I chop it up as a lost, or if I am mad, I tell them, "Keep the money, that is how much I bought you for." A friend would not put a friend in bondage. Excuse me let me repeat this again just incase my SISTER isn't listening. "FRIENDSSSSSS DO NOT PUT A FRIEEEEEND IN BONDAGE".[/color]

she promised to pay me back and she didnt and now im paying for her stuff and my stuff and thats bad because it cost us our friendship and my trust in her.

But noooooooooobody wants to listen to Meya. I told you from the get go, this is what the end result would turn out to be.

Pamela2, I believe Meya is right. Based on my experiences, I don't trust any of my friends with any of MY money. If they ask me for money, I always make up an excuse. If they get upset since I didn't loan them any money, so be it. They're not your true friend and I shouldn't of been talking to them in the first place. But, if it's something that has lent me money in the past, then I would definitely return the favor and help them out.

she promised to pay me back and she didnt and now im paying for her stuff and my stuff and thats bad because it cost us our friendship and my trust in her.

But noooooooooobody wants to listen to Meya. I told you from the get go, this is what the end result would turn out to be.

hi hjm331 credit cards that i used for Christmas. so to make a long story short i helped a friend who didnt have money for presents buy for her 5 kids (plus my 2) and charged 260.00 dollars on my Hooters card and 55.00 on my Target card for her kids plus what i charged for mine and she promised to pay me back and she didnt and now im paying for her stuff and my stuff and thats bad because it cost us our friendship and my trust in her.
so my husband is having to work over time every day just so we can pay my cards this month until we get income tax. sorry so long

Have you tried talking to your friend that you really need the money to pay off your credit cards?

hi hjm331 credit cards that i used for Christmas. so to make a long story short i helped a friend who didnt have money for presents buy for her 5 kids (plus my 2) and charged 260.00 dollars on my Hooters card and 55.00 on my Target card for her kids plus what i charged for mine and she promised to pay me back and she didnt and now im paying for her stuff and my stuff and thats bad because it cost us our friendship and my trust in her.
so my husband is having to work over time every day just so we can pay my cards this month until we get income tax. sorry so long ps we have money it is just that he wants to get the balances down.

same here no more. my poor husband is still walking around shaking his head and talking to himself everytime he looks at me and the bill holder. help meya

Pamela2, what is it exactly that you're trying to pay off?

same here no more. my poor husband is still walking around shaking his head and talking to himself everytime he looks at me and the bill holder. help meya this probably what he wants to do to me.

hey girl whats up? sorry i was banging the lids but i had to get your attention some how

2008 for me means no more inquiries anymore and more CLIs!! lol

hey girl whats up? sorry i was banging the lids but i had to get your attention some how im sitting here in my straight jacket and thinking that this starts a new beginning with the cards NO MORE!!!!!!!!!!! because i had a nervous breakdown when i got some of the bills yesterday that i fell over from the shock and my husband just walked out of the room shaking his head and talking to himself (great i gave him one too)

Happy 2008 to everyone!

Please stop with banging the pots, I got the shakes


My new years was great! I was afraid at 11:50 because gun shots over here are not going in the air, majority are targeted for humans. SBC Park lit out fireworks and it was so beautiful. I can see it by my house. My husband friends came over and I stayed woke until 3am. I won't do that agian, even though I was not over the "swigg" limit, I had to stay pretty functional because I had company with kids in my house. But I do feel a little of the results this morning.

hope everyone is having a good one so far. hey Meya how is the hang over?????????(banging the pots and pan lids together) hahahahahah mine is ok i guess SO HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!! hope to see more new people on here this year.