good for you hjm because my daughter was a oops and my son was a surprise but i wouldnt give them up for no amount of money!!!!

Definitely no surprises, I will make sure of that. I don't want to raise a child unexpectedly. I will have one when the time is right and when I find my child's true mother.

yes he is and i think you will make a great dad hjm when the time is right (no surprises or oops either)

I've always wanted to have my own son at this age. Unfortunately, I can't support him financially and that is the only thing holdin me back right now.

Isnt he just a gentleman pam?

Pamela, it's great that you have a good time on here. We are just being ourselves and we also have a great time when on FG. I'm glad your son spent time with his father, that's one of the most important thing in life of a father and a son. He will cherish those memories for the rest of his life.

thanks guys that is way i get on here because Meya and Hjm you guys just make my day!!!!! and AlEKS had a good time he sit and laughed at his dad when he was lighting the fireworks and running when they got out of control

Seeing the young ones happy will make you happy also. After all, they are the reason why we continue to fight everyday.

Well at least the kids had a good time, that's all that matters. Everything else will always be in your heart. No one can take that away from you.

i didnt get to see much either i went to my mom's brother's house and looked at pictures of my mom and grandma and everyone else that was in the pictures and my uncle got some fireworks for the little ones and my husband and cousin shot them off. i really had a good time just sitting there looking at my mom when she was little and how much my kids look like her and my grandma. sorry i got carried away but my mom and grandma are gone from us but not forgotten!!!!

Thanks sis, even though it was not all that for me. Every police in Sacramento was chasing firework users. they were not playing out there. Thank God I am back home, lords knows I do not like being around my husband close relatives. They are wanna-bees and try to keep up with the Jones type of peoples. Well, the females are.

I barely saw some fireworks this weekend. You know why? I never left the house.

I too would like to say I hope that everyone here enjoyed their 4th of July and the weekend!

Be safe and enjoy your weekend!

Be safe this weekend everyone!! Rockin35!